*This post is brought to you by P&G. All opinions are my own.
If you’re ever struggling to define the word “strong,” here’s a hint: just look at your mom! Moms are some of the strongest people on the planet. We have to be! From the moment our children come into our lives, they need us to be everything. Teacher, nurturer, cheerleader, personal chef, accountant, and master of the bedtime story-we play so many roles in our children’s lives that need us to remain strong, even when we’re feeling tired and weak. No one weathers the storms of life with as much resilience as a mom.
Thank You, Mom, for teaching me to be strong!
My mom is one of the strongest women I know. She became a single mom at the young age of 18 (that was the first of many surprises I gave my mom over my lifetime), so she’s been a mom her entire adult life. I can’t really say she raised me and my brother alone, she was strong enough and smart enough to ask for help from my grandparents, but she definitely did the majority of the work without any help. It was her strength and resolve to raise us to become well-adjusted adults that helped me when I became a single mom myself.
My mom with my brother the day he graduated from law school.
I never thought I’d follow in those particular footsteps, but life has a funny way of making history repeat. My son’s father is a great guy, but I had to make some tough decisions about whether the two of us were meant to raise Jacob together. He left when Jake was three to move three states away and I’ve been on my own since, for the most part. Like my mom, I was smart enough to know that I needed help, so she’s been helping raise Jake the way my grandparents helped raise me.
When I became a single mom, I was completely overwhelmed. It happened at probably the worst possible time. My mom was laid up in bed with a broken leg and my grandfather had just passed away. I spent most of my married life as a career college student, bouncing from one major to the next in an effort to find something that “stuck.” I had zero marketable job skills, aside from writing, and I didn’t yet know how to turn that into an actual career. I literally applied for 200 jobs, got two interviews and no hires. Everyone wanted someone with a college degree, and despite the fact that I had more credits than your average Master’s Degree graduate, they weren’t all in one thing.
There were times when I felt like I should just give up, when I didn’t think I’d ever be able to pull out of the funk that I was in, let alone support my son. My mom supported me more than just financially through that time. She encouraged me to turn my writing skills into a career and gave me the guts to do it. I was terrified that the writing world would eat me alive. I never thought I was strong enough to survive it. As usual, she was right. Her strength enabled me to become a stronger mom for my son.
Celebrate Strong Moms During the Olympics
Proctor & Gamble supports strong moms every day through their products, but their “Thank You Mom” campaign really kicks things up a notch during the Olympics. Their videos during the London 2012 and the Sochi 2014 Olympics were among the most viewed Olympic videos, and for a good reason. They’re quite powerful. Take a look at their latest Olympic video, “Strong.”
I love that this video isn’t all about winning the gold, but instead celebrates the athletes and the “mom journey” that helped them reach their full potential. It’s so fitting because our athletes aren’t just rock stars in their individual sports, many are also the children of strong moms themselves. Any mom who has ever encouraged her child before a big game knows that our support plays a big role in their confidence. Would Gillette athlete, Ashton Eaton, be able to run like the wind without his mom Roz’ encouragement? Could Pampers athlete, Dana Vollmer, take on an Olympic swimming pool without her mom Cathy?
The video itself is inspired by P&G’s thorough research into what we moms really believe in and need. Did you know that 98% of moms were totally surprised by the actual demands of motherhood versus what they thought being a mom would be like? I know I’m one of them! I was completely unprepared for certain aspects of motherhood. Even my son’s birth didn’t go at all according to my expectations! I envisioned a movie-like experience, when in actuality he was born via emergency c-section 8 weeks early.
One finding that really speaks to me: 84% of moms who receive help caring for their kids still feel like they’re the family leader. I’ve actually been told that you can’t be a “single mom” if you have help from your own parents. That’s like saying you can’t be a parent if you hire a babysitter or send your child to daycare. My mom helps me out, but I am ultimately responsible for the financial and emotional care of my son.
For more interesting stats from the Mom Report, check out this awesome infographic:
Show your support for the strong moms behind our athletes by watching the “Strong” video and sharing it! Tell the world about your own strong mom on social media with the hashtag #ThankYouMom.
We’re all strong moms in our own ways, so tell me in the comments, what makes you strong? How did your own mom’s strength help make you the person you are today?
I raised three kids, went to school full time and worked 3 part time jobs all as a single parent. Strong comes with the territory.
I learned everything I know from my mom. I would be lost without her.
I think mom’s are stronger than we realize! We have a ton to do and still need to be there for our kids and we do it all without flinching!
My mom raised us alone growing up! I appreciate everything she did for my brother and I. Being a single mom was not always easy but she somehow made it work.
Awe, your mom sounds amazing. I know so many single moms and I really don’t know how they do it. BUt, it sounds like yours had a great support system and because of all of that, was able to raise you to be strong. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
What a great post! You have a great Mom and it sounds like you are a very strong Mom yourself. Having a support system is so important when you find yourself in an overwhelming situation like being a single Mom.
Love this! I feel the same about my mom even though she passed when I was 16 I owe it all to her…. your mom sounds amazing!
This is such a wonderful post! Sounds like you have a great mother. I believe that all mothers have to be strong for their children. You sound like you’re doing a great job as well!
I love this post! My mom has been my rock, my entire life! Without her there would be no me!
I love this!! My mom means the world to me and it sounds like you have a great one as well! Mothers have to be so strong! Parenting is hard work!
Love that quote at the beginning! It seriously sums up motherhood perfectly! I’ve never felt so fearful yet strong in my entire life!
Children learn more from what they see their parents do than from what they hear their parents say. It is good to be the right example for our children.
My mom is the inspiration behind my blog, she definitely has inspired me and shaped the person I am today. Thanks for sharing your touching story.
There is certainly nothing wrong with having help. I think it’s good for the parent and good for the kids! Your mom sounds wonderful!
mom’s are stronger than we give them credit for! I know my mom is.
I do feel my mom is so strong. Gosh even as a 47 year old losing her husband, she has displayed her courage and strength.
I’m so sorry to hear about your family’s loss. 🙁
Moms are so overlooked so Mother’s Day is a good reminder you should be saying thank you all the time. Most moms don’t need gifts; just recognition they go the extra mile.
I adore my mom for all the sacrifices she made in order to give us the best life possible. You wrote a really beautiful post for your mom and I’m sure your appreciation does not go unnoticed.
Lisa Favre
http://marblecrumbs.com
I am strong because I determined. Thank you for your beautiful post.
#ThankYouMom My mom was crippled at a young age with five children and was told she would never walk again. I was still very little, and I remember my dad carrying my mom from one room to another. Over the period of several years, she went to therapy and and did programs at home, too, and was able to walk again, and go a few places, but had to have a fold up chair with her. She was very determined