It can sometimes be hard to be a truly sexually confident woman, but the truth is that human beings are made to have sex – it’s really our only function when you boil everything down to basics – and being afraid to explore your sexuality fully in whatever way appeals most is a waste. Yet, it can be a challenge to get to a point where you are confident about sex and sexuality, and it can be a challenge to make yourself heard. So with that in mind, here are some tips on how to be a sexually confident woman so you can really make the most of life and love.

Get Connected To Your Body

If you’re not connected to your own body, it’s very difficult to be sexually confident and persuade others to connect too. To be more confident in bed, you need to truly understand and know your own body before exploring anyone else’s. If you don’t, you’ll feel anxious about it, worried about what other people will think or say, and then relationships suffer. Getting connected to your own body can help to make you more confident, but it will also help to spice up sex in long term relationship and allow you to meet new people more easily. It’s well worth exploring.

The good news is that getting more connected to yourself is easier than you might think. For example, you can:

  • Perform self-love rituals (including affirmations, mirror work, and positive thinking)
  • Ask your partner what it is they like most about your body
  • Explore your fantasies, either alone or with someone else

The more connected you are, the more confident you will be, and others will notice this right away.


We’ve briefly mentioned above how talking to your partner is a useful way to help explore your sexual confidence and boost it when needed, but it’s such an important part of the process that we’ll go into a little more detail here.

You should never be anxious about talking to your partner about sex, your body, or your relationship. If you are worried, then there might be something deeper going on that needs to be explored before anything else can be discussed. However, if you are happy to talk, then you should – and you should listen too. You will learn a lot about yourself that you never realized, from what your partner finds particularly attractive to what you do that turns them on. Hearing this information will certainly boost confidence and allow you to explore what you’re hearing much more fully.


Have A Sense Of Humor

This might sound like a strange idea because being sexually confident is a serious matter, but having a sense of humor about sex is something that will boost your confidence in yourself, and that will make others around you sense you’re a more confident person too.

In the end, sex is meant to be about fun. It should not be something that stresses you out or makes you anxious. You should be able to laugh at the ridiculousness of the whole thing and enjoy it no matter what. Sometimes things will go wrong, sometimes something will happen, and it’s okay to be amused.

If you can laugh at yourself and still be confident, your partner is sure to find that very sexy indeed.